I'm 56 and passed through menopause with NO SYMPTOMS at all (I eat a diet primarily of soy and vegetables). I'm also single and haven't had sex in a few years. Just now entering a relationship I learn, to my horror, that my vagina walls are brittle, shrunken and bleed at the slightest touch. My doctor suggests premarin cream or vagifem tablets for the vagina (not oral because I have no other symptoms). Help! What would you suggest!